{"id":106,"date":"2025-06-13T19:03:42","date_gmt":"2025-06-13T19:03:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/?p=106"},"modified":"2025-06-23T19:13:35","modified_gmt":"2025-06-23T19:13:35","slug":"managing-a-social-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/index.php\/2025\/06\/13\/managing-a-social-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Managing a Social Life"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-6188524dcca4b7fdf52bb1600290047f\" style=\"background-color:#c8102e\"><strong>\ud83c\udf1f Tips for Managing Your Social Life at University for Internationals in the Netherlands<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>Welcome to our student life guide! University is a time of intense personal and academic growth\u2014but it can also be socially overwhelming. Whether you\u2019re just starting out or trying to find your footing, having a strong social support network can make all the difference. This guide offers practical tips, personal insights, and thoughtful strategies to help you build and maintain a fulfilling social life during your university years, here, in the Netherlands. We also created a podcast whrere we talk about the things mentioned in this post, so if you prefer audio input feel free to listen to it <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-118\" style=\"width: NaNpx;\" src=\"http:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/WhatsApp-Audio-2025-05-03-at-13.59.14.mp4\" alt=\"\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-119\" style=\"width: NaNpx;\" src=\"http:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/WhatsApp-Audio-2025-05-03-at-13.59.14-1.mp4\" alt=\"\"><a href=\"http:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/WhatsApp-Audio-2025-05-03-at-13.59.14-1.mp4\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"http:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/WhatsApp-Audio-2025-05-03-at-13.59.14-1.mp4\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ac997b9a-a703-481e-9f21-08dc8e5ee7df-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-108\" srcset=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ac997b9a-a703-481e-9f21-08dc8e5ee7df-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ac997b9a-a703-481e-9f21-08dc8e5ee7df-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ac997b9a-a703-481e-9f21-08dc8e5ee7df-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ac997b9a-a703-481e-9f21-08dc8e5ee7df.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-11c96834e813d2d5ccc5ed0810061882\" style=\"background-color:#c8102e\"><strong>\ud83c\udfaf Why a Social Life Matters<\/strong> <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Strong social connections are essential for both mental health and academic performance (Maurizi et al. 2014). Studies consistently show that students with solid support networks experience lower levels of depression and anxiety, which translates into better focus, motivation, and academic outcomes (e.g. Cohen &amp; Wills, 1985).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In other words, friendships aren\u2019t just nice to have\u2014they\u2019re foundational to your overall success at university.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Podcast quote: \u201cI started university with a small social circle, and when that broke apart, both my mood and grades took a hit.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/088c6a7c-086d-4332-ac59-083389c5e5de-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-109\" srcset=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/088c6a7c-086d-4332-ac59-083389c5e5de-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/088c6a7c-086d-4332-ac59-083389c5e5de-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/088c6a7c-086d-4332-ac59-083389c5e5de-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/088c6a7c-086d-4332-ac59-083389c5e5de-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/088c6a7c-086d-4332-ac59-083389c5e5de.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-c4677f49c8a5e48bf18cc6b672dc5c4e\" style=\"background-color:#c8102e\"><strong>\ud83d\udd04 The Big Transition: High School vs. a Foreign University<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the most significant shifts from high school to university, especially a foreign one, is the social environment. High school offers a built-in structure of daily classes, familiar faces, and routine interactions. In contrast, university life is often more fragmented, with flexible schedules and students spread across different programs and campuses. Students also have more autonomy and responsibility for managing their own attendance and participation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This shift means you\u2019ll need to be more intentional about making connections. Taking initiative\u2014whether that means chatting with someone in a lecture, joining a group, or attending a campus event\u2014can go a long way in helping you find your people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"684\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/81915a07-00d8-491a-ae38-451f688c627d-684x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-112\" srcset=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/81915a07-00d8-491a-ae38-451f688c627d-684x1024.jpg 684w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/81915a07-00d8-491a-ae38-451f688c627d-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/81915a07-00d8-491a-ae38-451f688c627d-768x1151.jpg 768w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/81915a07-00d8-491a-ae38-451f688c627d-1025x1536.jpg 1025w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/81915a07-00d8-491a-ae38-451f688c627d.jpg 1068w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 684px) 100vw, 684px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-815eaee25f7197ed058b98a4bb45dd8d\" style=\"background-color:#c8102e\"><strong>\ud83c\udf0d Make It Easier For Yourself<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re an international student, adjusting to university life comes with additional challenges\u2014but also unique opportunities for growth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Language Proficiency<\/strong>: Learning the local language (i.e. Dutch) can be a major advantage. It not only helps you understand your surroundings but also allows you to participate more fully in both social and academic life. Universities in the Netherlands offer courses in Dutch, of which the introductory courses are usually free. Excited to start learning Dutch? We&#8217;ve got you covered \u2013 check out the links to the Dutch courses at your university in the &#8220;links&#8221; section of this website at the end of this website!<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Cultural Adaptation<\/strong>: Understanding and respecting local norms can ease your integration. It can also open doors to friendships beyond the international student bubble. In the &#8220;links&#8221; section of this website at the end of this website, you&#8217;ll find some helpful links to better understand Dutch social norms. And don&#8217;t worry\u2014if you&#8217;re ever unsure, just ask a Dutchie! They&#8217;re usually more than happy to explain their customs.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Building bridges across cultural lines will enrich your experience and broaden your worldview.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Podcast Quote: \u201cLearning Dutch allowed me to join more events and understand what\u2019s going on around me.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/7e0f36be-8b44-4bda-96ae-fa854196ec9b-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111\" srcset=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/7e0f36be-8b44-4bda-96ae-fa854196ec9b-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/7e0f36be-8b44-4bda-96ae-fa854196ec9b-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/7e0f36be-8b44-4bda-96ae-fa854196ec9b-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/7e0f36be-8b44-4bda-96ae-fa854196ec9b-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/7e0f36be-8b44-4bda-96ae-fa854196ec9b.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-9c9d127525d1b4b4c9641f08c1fb94c2\" style=\"background-color:#c8102e\"><strong>\ud83c\udfc3\u200d\u2640\ufe0f Practical Ways to Make Friends<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Making friends at a university in the Netherlands doesn\u2019t have to feel forced or awkward. Here are some concrete ideas:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Join a Sports Club or Gym<\/strong>: Physical activities naturally bring people together. Facilities like ACLO in Groningen are not just great for fitness\u2014they\u2019re also great for finding community.<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Attend Public Events and Hobby Meetups<\/strong>: Whether it\u2019s a skating session, a poetry night, or a coding club, shared interests can spark lasting friendships.<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Engage in Student Organizations<\/strong>: From academic societies to cultural clubs, these groups offer structured ways to meet people with similar values or goals.<br><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Participate in Campus Activities<\/strong>: University events, especially at the start of the academic year, are often designed to help students mingle\u2014so show up and take part!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/80c59731-5297-46f0-9ebf-ae7d439ef28a-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-110\" srcset=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/80c59731-5297-46f0-9ebf-ae7d439ef28a-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/80c59731-5297-46f0-9ebf-ae7d439ef28a-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/80c59731-5297-46f0-9ebf-ae7d439ef28a-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/80c59731-5297-46f0-9ebf-ae7d439ef28a-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/80c59731-5297-46f0-9ebf-ae7d439ef28a.jpg 1067w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-f49593d84cfe32e092ce2b71e6844675\" style=\"background-color:#c8102e\"><strong>\ud83e\udde0 Friends Inside vs. Outside Your Program<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Balancing different types of friendships is key to a healthy social life:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Friends in Your Program<\/strong>:<br>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Help with coursework and exams<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Share reminders about deadlines<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Provide emotional support during stressful academic periods<br><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Friends Outside Your Program<\/strong>:<br>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Offer perspective beyond your major<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Help you take mental breaks from study-heavy conversations<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Introduce you to new activities and social scenes<br><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Having both types of friends adds variety and resilience to your social life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/45aba2b2-e511-432d-bd24-7165738e1dfb-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-114\" srcset=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/45aba2b2-e511-432d-bd24-7165738e1dfb-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/45aba2b2-e511-432d-bd24-7165738e1dfb-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/45aba2b2-e511-432d-bd24-7165738e1dfb-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/45aba2b2-e511-432d-bd24-7165738e1dfb-1-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/45aba2b2-e511-432d-bd24-7165738e1dfb-1.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-11f7c21478ebb954051656153e643dd1\" style=\"background-color:#c8102e\"><strong>\ud83d\udcca Diversify Your Social Circles<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Think of your social life like an investment portfolio\u2014diversification is key. Relying too heavily on one person or group can lead to disappointment through uncomfortable fixation. Instead, build a network of friends across different settings and interests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t worry if not every connection is a deep one. Sometimes a casual friend for workouts or weekend plans can be just as important as a confidant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Podcast quote: \u201cI have skating friends, study buddies, and a few close friends I can talk to about anything. That balance really helps.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/8f90620a-7a95-4c2f-8f9b-4d7e82a53288-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-115\" srcset=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/8f90620a-7a95-4c2f-8f9b-4d7e82a53288-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/8f90620a-7a95-4c2f-8f9b-4d7e82a53288-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/8f90620a-7a95-4c2f-8f9b-4d7e82a53288-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/8f90620a-7a95-4c2f-8f9b-4d7e82a53288-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/8f90620a-7a95-4c2f-8f9b-4d7e82a53288.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-68a8573cbaa101f98bb5d0a560afea22\" style=\"background-color:#c8102e\"><strong>\ud83c\udf31 Long-Term Benefits of Building a Social Network<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The friendships you build during university can have lasting impacts on your personal and professional development. Being socially active helps you develop:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Communication and interpersonal skills<\/strong><strong><br><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Teamwork and leadership experience<\/strong><strong><br><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>A sense of belonging and confidence<\/strong><strong><br><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Professional networks that can benefit your career later on<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Investing in your social life now can pay off long after graduation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Podcast quote: \u201cHuman capital isn\u2019t just about what you know\u2014it\u2019s also who you know.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/9e541a2d-2c16-43bc-bd60-6c96bb97dfbc.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/9e541a2d-2c16-43bc-bd60-6c96bb97dfbc-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-116\" srcset=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/9e541a2d-2c16-43bc-bd60-6c96bb97dfbc-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/9e541a2d-2c16-43bc-bd60-6c96bb97dfbc-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/9e541a2d-2c16-43bc-bd60-6c96bb97dfbc-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/9e541a2d-2c16-43bc-bd60-6c96bb97dfbc-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/9e541a2d-2c16-43bc-bd60-6c96bb97dfbc.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-283cef754d389749224be095c3502929\" style=\"background-color:#c8102e\"><strong>\u2705 Most Important Tips for Social Success as a Student in the Netherlands <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Be Proactive<\/strong>: Don\u2019t wait for others to approach you. Say yes to invitations, attend mixers, and follow up with people you click with.<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Join Your Study Association<\/strong>: These are not only great for academic resources but also host plenty of social events.<br><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Be Patient<\/strong>: Meaningful friendships take time to develop. Give yourself room to grow and explore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3d1f79d1-3983-4f7c-8331-b5913a52ced8-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-117\" srcset=\"https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3d1f79d1-3983-4f7c-8331-b5913a52ced8-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3d1f79d1-3983-4f7c-8331-b5913a52ced8-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3d1f79d1-3983-4f7c-8331-b5913a52ced8-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3d1f79d1-3983-4f7c-8331-b5913a52ced8-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/teachingandlearning.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3d1f79d1-3983-4f7c-8331-b5913a52ced8.jpg 1067w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-0c269f98063962883721af93c25eaf5b\" style=\"background-color:#c8102e\"><strong>\ud83e\udde9 What to Do Against Social Awkwardness<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Start Small and Safe<\/strong>: Say hi to someone in class, comment on the lecture, or chat with a roommate. Low-stakes interactions build confidence.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Use Simple Conversation Starters<\/strong>: Ask things like \u201cWhat are you studying?\u201d or \u201cHave you been to this event before?\u201d\u2014they\u2019re easy and effective.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Be a Good Listener<\/strong>: Show interest by nodding, asking follow-up questions, and letting others talk. Avoid mentally scripting your next reply while someone else is talking, and react to what they said instead.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Challenge Negative Thoughts<\/strong>: Replace self-doubt with realistic reminders: \u201cIt\u2019s okay to be nervous,\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m learning and improving.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Reframe Awkwardness as Normal<\/strong>: Everyone feels awkward sometimes\u2014it\u2019s a sign you\u2019re growing and stepping out of your comfort zone, not that something\u2019s wrong.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-d39c1180643d4b61e7bf18c3e43aaa19\" style=\"background-color:#c8102e\"><strong>\ud83d\udc4b In Summary<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>University is more than lectures and exams\u2014it\u2019s a chance to grow as a person and create connections that could shape your future. The social network you build during these years will support your well-being, enhance your academic life, and potentially launch your career.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So take a chance. Join the club. Attend the event. Say hello. Your future friends are out there\u2014just waiting to meet you!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-vivid-red-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-495950a5e14d753b51c5dbd955e3feae\">\ud83d\udcdd <strong>Track Your Socializing Progress! <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It can be useful to check in with and reflect on how you manage your social life. You can do so by keeping a diary in which you reflect on your social life or list persons that you can always count on. Another helpful resource could be these questionnaires provided below that you can do multiple times and track your development. The first questionnaire is the UCLA Loneliness Scale by Russel (1996). It is a widely used questionnaire measuring subjective feelings of loneliness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The second questionnaire is a shortened version of the Interpersonal Support Evaluation List by Cohen et al. (1985). It measures Social Support on three dimensions, namely appraisal support (i.e. having someone to share private thoughts and worries with), belonging support (i.e. having someone to do nice activities with), and tangible support (i.e. having people that would help you with everyday chores or challenges). You will be getting a score on each of these dimensions to see exactly what your social support strengths are and where you could improve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After you got your scores, it is time to put in the work and put the things you\u2019ve learned into practice, step by step.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is important to note that you have to be careful when interpreting these self-report scores, especially with the loneliness scale. If you feel like you need help, turn to a professional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center has-black-color has-white-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-6d6cfb59b2f3f5282827268a2b8286b4\">How lonely are you really?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<form id=\"loneliness-form\">\n  <h3>UCLA Loneliness Scale (Version 3)<\/h3>\n  <p>Please indicate how often each statement describes you.<\/p>\n\n  <ol>\n    <li>How often do you feel that you are &#8220;in tune&#8221; with the people around you?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q1\" value=\"1\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q1\" value=\"2\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q1\" value=\"3\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q1\" value=\"4\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel that you lack companionship?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q2\" value=\"1\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q2\" value=\"2\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q2\" value=\"3\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q2\" value=\"4\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel that there is no one you can turn to?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q3\" value=\"1\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q3\" value=\"2\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q3\" value=\"3\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q3\" value=\"4\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel alone?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q4\" value=\"1\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q4\" value=\"2\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q4\" value=\"3\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q4\" value=\"4\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel part of a group of friends?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q5\" value=\"1\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q5\" value=\"2\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q5\" value=\"3\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q5\" value=\"4\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel that you have a lot in common with the people around you?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q6\" value=\"1\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q6\" value=\"2\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q6\" 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type=\"radio\" name=\"q11\" value=\"1\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q11\" value=\"2\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q11\" value=\"3\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q11\" value=\"4\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel that your relationships with others are not meaningful?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q12\" value=\"1\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q12\" value=\"2\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q12\" value=\"3\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q12\" value=\"4\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel that no one really knows you well?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q13\" value=\"1\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q13\" value=\"2\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q13\" value=\"3\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q13\" value=\"4\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel isolated from others?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q14\" value=\"1\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q14\" value=\"2\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q14\" value=\"3\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q14\" value=\"4\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel you can find companionship when you want it?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q15\" value=\"1\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q15\" value=\"2\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q15\" value=\"3\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q15\" value=\"4\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel that there are people who really understand you?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q16\" value=\"1\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q16\" value=\"2\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q16\" value=\"3\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q16\" value=\"4\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel shy?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q17\" value=\"1\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q17\" value=\"2\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q17\" value=\"3\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q17\" value=\"4\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel that people are around you but not with you?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q18\" value=\"1\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q18\" value=\"2\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q18\" value=\"3\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q18\" value=\"4\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel that there are people you can talk to?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q19\" value=\"1\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q19\" value=\"2\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q19\" value=\"3\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q19\" value=\"4\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>How often do you feel that there are people you can turn to?<br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q20\" value=\"1\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Never<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q20\" value=\"2\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Rarely<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q20\" value=\"3\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Sometimes<\/label>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"q20\" value=\"4\" data-reverse=\"true\"> Often<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n  <\/ol>\n\n  <button type=\"submit\">Submit<\/button>\n<\/form>\n\n<div id=\"score-result\" style=\"display:none; margin-top: 20px;\">\n  <h4>Your UCLA Loneliness Score:<\/h4>\n  <p id=\"score-text\"><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n<script>\n  document.getElementById('loneliness-form').addEventListener('submit', function(event) {\n    event.preventDefault();\n    let total = 0;\n    let unanswered = false;\n\n    for (let i = 1; i <= 20; i++) {\n      const options = document.getElementsByName('q' + i);\n      let answered = false;\n\n      for (let option of options) {\n        if (option.checked) {\n          answered = true;\n          const reverse = option.getAttribute(\"data-reverse\") === \"true\";\n          const 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UCLA Loneliness Scale (Version 3): Reliability, validity, and factor structure. <em>Journal of Personality Assessment, 66<\/em>(1), 20\u201340. https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1207\/s15327752jpa6601_2<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center has-black-color has-white-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-56dd2d94b7094cc4b4b9256e51fb7a40\">How much social support do you get?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<form id=\"appraisal-support-form\">\n  <h3>Appraisal Support Scale<\/h3>\n  <p>Please indicate how true each statement is for you.<\/p>\n  <ol>\n    <li>\n      <strong>1. I feel that there is no one I can share my most private worries and fears with.<\/strong><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-1\" value=\"1\"> Definitely false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-1\" value=\"2\"> Probably false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-1\" value=\"3\"> Probably true<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-1\" value=\"4\"> Definitely true<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>\n      <strong>2. There is someone I can turn to for advice about handling problems with my family.<\/strong><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-2\" value=\"1\"> Definitely false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-2\" value=\"2\"> Probably false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-2\" value=\"3\"> Probably true<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-2\" value=\"4\"> Definitely true<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>\n      <strong>3. When I need suggestions on how to deal with a personal problem, I know someone I can turn to.<\/strong><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-3\" value=\"1\"> Definitely false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-3\" value=\"2\"> Probably false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-3\" value=\"3\"> Probably true<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-3\" value=\"4\"> Definitely true<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>\n      <strong>4. If a family crisis arose, it would be difficult to find someone who could give me good advice about how to handle it.<\/strong><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-4\" value=\"1\"> Definitely false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-4\" value=\"2\"> Probably false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-4\" value=\"3\"> Probably true<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-4\" value=\"4\"> Definitely true<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n  <\/ol>\n  <button type=\"submit\">Submit<\/button>\n<\/form>\n\n<div id=\"appraisal-support-result\" style=\"display:none; margin-top: 20px;\">\n  <h4>Your Appraisal Support Score:<\/h4>\n  <p id=\"appraisal-support-score-text\"><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n<script>\n  document.getElementById('appraisal-support-form').addEventListener('submit', function(event) {\n    event.preventDefault();\n    let total = 0;\n\n    for (let i = 1; i <= 4; i++) {\n      const radios = document.getElementsByName(`item-${i}`);\n      let answered = false;\n      for (let radio of radios) {\n        if (radio.checked) {\n          let value = parseInt(radio.value);\n          \/\/ Reverse score for item 1 and 4\n          if (i === 1 || i === 4) {\n            value = 5 - value; \/\/ reverse scoring for 4-point scale\n          }\n          total += value;\n          answered = true;\n          break;\n        }\n      }\n      if (!answered) {\n        alert(`Please answer question ${i} before submitting.`);\n        return;\n      }\n    }\n\n    document.getElementById('appraisal-support-result').style.display = 'block';\n    document.getElementById('appraisal-support-score-text').innerText =\n      `You scored ${total} out of 16. 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If I had to go out of town for a few weeks, it would be difficult to find someone who would look after my house or apartment (the plants, pets, garden, etc.).<\/strong><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-2\" value=\"1\"> Definitely false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-2\" value=\"2\"> Probably false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-2\" value=\"3\"> Probably true<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-2\" value=\"4\"> Definitely true<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>\n      <strong>3. If I was stranded 10 miles from home, there is someone I could call who could come and get me.<\/strong><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-3\" value=\"1\"> Definitely false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-3\" value=\"2\"> Probably false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-3\" value=\"3\"> Probably true<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-3\" value=\"4\"> Definitely true<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n\n    <li>\n      <strong>4. If I needed some help in moving to a new house or apartment, I would have a hard time finding someone to help me.<\/strong><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-4\" value=\"1\"> Definitely false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-4\" value=\"2\"> Probably false<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-4\" value=\"3\"> Probably true<\/label><br>\n      <label><input type=\"radio\" name=\"item-4\" value=\"4\"> Definitely true<\/label>\n    <\/li>\n  <\/ol>\n  <button type=\"submit\">Submit<\/button>\n<\/form>\n\n<div id=\"tangible-support-result\" style=\"display:none; margin-top: 20px;\">\n  <h4>Your Tangible Support Score:<\/h4>\n  <p id=\"tangible-support-score-text\"><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n<script>\n  document.getElementById('tangible-support-form').addEventListener('submit', function(event) {\n    event.preventDefault();\n    let total = 0;\n\n    for (let i = 1; i <= 4; i++) {\n      const radios = document.getElementsByName(`item-${i}`);\n      let answered = false;\n      for (let radio of radios) {\n        if (radio.checked) {\n          let value = parseInt(radio.value);\n          \/\/ Reverse score for item 2 and 4\n          if (i === 2 || i === 4) {\n            value = 5 - value;\n          }\n          total += value;\n          answered = true;\n          break;\n        }\n      }\n      if (!answered) {\n        alert(`Please answer question ${i} before submitting.`);\n        return;\n      }\n    }\n\n    document.getElementById('tangible-support-result').style.display = 'block';\n    document.getElementById('tangible-support-score-text').innerText =\n      `You scored ${total} out of 16. Higher scores indicate greater perceived tangible support.`;\n  });\n<\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>Cohen, S., Mermelstein, R., Kamarck, T., &amp; Hoberman, H. M. (1985). Measuring the functional components of social support. In I. G. Sarason &amp; B. R. Sarason (Eds.), <em>Social support: Theory, research and applications (pp. 73\u201394)<\/em>. Springer. https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1007\/978-94-009-5115-0_5<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-vivid-red-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-d6e51aef1ba9893cd29df01a5305d444\"><strong>\ud83d\udd17 Links<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Links to language courses<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Universiteit Utrecht<\/strong>:<br>https:\/\/www.babel.nl\/nl\/taalcursussen\/nederlands-voor-anderstaligen<br><strong>Universiteit Leiden<\/strong>:<br>https:\/\/www.universiteitleiden.nl\/atc\/cursussen\/nederlands-2-intensief<br><strong>Rijksuniversiteit Groningen<\/strong>:<br>https:\/\/taalunieversum.org\/inhoud\/taaluniecentrum-nederlands-als-vreemde-taal\/universiteiten\/rug<br><strong>Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam<\/strong>: https:\/\/taalunieversum.org\/inhoud\/taaluniecentrum-nederlands-als-vreemde-taal\/universiteiten\/vrije-universiteit-amsterdam<br><strong>Universiteit van Amsterdam:<\/strong><br>https:\/\/www.uva-talen.nl\/nl\/cursus\/nederlands-nt2<br><strong>Tilburg University<\/strong>:<br>https:\/\/www.tilburguniversity.edu\/nl\/onderwijs\/tilburg-university-language-center\/dutch\/advanced-courses\/fluent-speaking<br><strong>Radboud Universiteit Nijmegen<\/strong>:<br>https:\/\/www.radboudintolanguages.nl\/nl\/taalcursussen\/nederlands-nt2<br><strong>TU Delft<\/strong>:<br>https:\/\/taalunieversum.org\/inhoud\/taaluniecentrum-nederlands-als-vreemde-taal\/universiteiten\/tu-delft<br><strong>TU Eindhoven<\/strong>:<br>https:\/\/taalunieversum.org\/inhoud\/taaluniecentrum-nederlands-als-vreemde-taal\/universiteiten\/technische-universiteit-eindhoven<br><strong>Maastricht University<\/strong>:<br>https:\/\/taalunieversum.org\/inhoud\/taaluniecentrum-nederlands-als-vreemde-taal\/universiteiten\/universiteit-maastricht<br><strong>Universiteit Twente<\/strong>:<br>https:\/\/taalunieversum.org\/inhoud\/taaluniecentrum-nederlands-als-vreemde-taal\/universiteiten\/universiteit-twente<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Links to Dutch social norms<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehagueinternationalcentre.nl\/why-the-hague-region\/the-netherlands-in-a-nutshell\/cultural-dos-and-donts\">https:\/\/www.thehagueinternationalcentre.nl\/why-the-hague-region\/the-netherlands-in-a-nutshell\/cultural-dos-and-donts<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/moneywood.nl\/social-skills-netherlands-5-unwritten-rules\">https:\/\/moneywood.nl\/social-skills-netherlands-5-unwritten-rules<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/iwcn.nl\/living\/dutch-customs-and-cultures\">https:\/\/iwcn.nl\/living\/dutch-customs-and-cultures<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-vivid-red-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-4bef5f28d42fe45748ba951a52e724a4\"><strong>References<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Cohen, S., &amp; Wills, T. A. (1985). <em>Stress, social support, and the buffering hypothesis<\/em>. <em>Psychological Bulletin, 98<\/em>(2), 310\u2013357. <a>https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1037\/0033-2909.98.2.310<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cohen, S., Mermelstein, R., Kamarck, T., &amp; Hoberman, H. M. (1985). Measuring the functional components of social support. In I. G. Sarason &amp; B. R. Sarason (Eds.), Social support: Theory, research and applications (pp. 73\u201394). Springer. https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1007\/978-94-009-5115-0_5<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maurizi et al. (2014): Meta-Analysis linking social support to academic achievement <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC3648874\">https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC3648874<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maurizi et al. (2014): Social support buffers the negative effect of depressive symptoms on academic achievement <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC3648874\/?utm_source=chatgpt.com\">https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC3648874\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Russell, D. W. (1996). UCLA Loneliness Scale (Version 3): Reliability, validity, and factor structure. Journal of Personality Assessment, 66(1), 20\u201340. https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1207\/s15327752jpa6601_2<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\ud83c\udf1f Tips for Managing Your Social Life at University for Internationals in the Netherlands Welcome to our student life guide! 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